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Day of Mourning 2014

Saturday, March 1st, the disability community will gather across the nation to remember disabled victims of filicide–disabled people murdered by their family members or caregivers.

In the past five years, over forty people with disabilities have been murdered by their parents.

In the year since our last vigil, our community has lost at least ten more victims.

In January of 2014, two more disabled people were lost in murder-suicides at the hands of their parents: Damien Veraghen, age nine, and Vincent Phan, age twenty four.

These acts are horrific enough on their own. But they exist in the context of a larger pattern. A parent kills their disabled child. The media portrays these murders as justifiable and inevitable due to the “burden” of having a disabled person in the family. If the parent stands trial, they are given sympathy and  comparatively lighter sentences, if they are sentenced at all. The victims is disregarded, blamed for their own murder at the hands of the person they should have been able to trust the most, and ultimately forgotten. And then the cycle repeats.

For the last three years, ASAN, ADAPT, Not Dead Yet, the National Council on Independent Living, the Disability Rights Education & Defense Fund, and other disability rights organizations have come together to mourn those losses, bring awareness to these tragedies, and demand justice and equal protection under the law for all people with disabilities. On March 1st, we will come together again, and we ask you to join us. So far, twenty three volunteers have signed up to serve as site coordinators for vigils across the country.

Current vigil sites:

Sacramento, CA
Shyanna Mendes,

San Francisco Bay Area, CA
Brent White,
Rob Gross,

Fort Myers, FL
Suzanne Fast,

Atlanta, GA
R. Larkin Taylor-Parker,

Chicago, IL
Carrie Kaufman,

Boston, MA
Andrew De Carlo,

Baltimore, MD
Amanda Mills,

Towson, MD
Rhonda Greenhaw,

Houghton, MI
Caroline Maye,

Missoula, MT
Mike Beers,

Robbinsville, NC
Carol Sutton,

Lincoln, NE
Sharon DaVanport,

Woodbridge, NJ
Evelyn Delgado,

Reno, NV
Brianna Hammon,

New City, NY
Jason Ross,

New York City, NY
Cara Liebowitz,

Rochester, NY
Diane Coleman,

Syracuse, NY
Alex Umstead,

Eugene, OR
Amber Perry,

Portland, OR
Theresa Soto,

Pittsburgh, PA
Lauren Stuparitz,

Seattle, WA
Matt Young,

Washington, DC
Melissa Mooney,

Halifax, Nova Scotia 
Leah Andrews,

Virtual vigil, for those unable to attend a local vigil.





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